Getting married is a very fortunate chapter of

one person's life.

To road to getting married is tougher

but staying happily ever after

is tougher.

While love is an unconditional acceptance,

how many people can exhibit true love?

I am currently planning my wedding

and getting ready to get married.

At the start, I can feel the strain

and pressure.

Yet, my love for my girl is so strong

that it keeps pulling me back

and hold on to what I

believe all the time

To love the girl and spend

the rest of my life

with her

forever

...

Love is unconditional acceptance.
It requires communication to maintain
and
trust to stay strong.

If you are reading this post.
Trust your love ones...

Love them..

How often do you quietly observe your

surrounding?

Yesterday, I have a chance to sit down

and observe my gf jotting down her

idea.

Through observing, I get to see her clearer.

Yet, currently, what she wants now is to talk to her over the phone.

She does not understand her important is this entry is important to us.

This entry signifies my love for her.

By just watching her, I actually get very happy.

Everything we have done is really worthwhile.

I used to tell my friends that in a relationship,

communication is very important.

Yesterday, I understand the true meaning of

Communication.

The poem below is for my GF.

-Love exists without words-

We don't have to speak, and we are communicating.

We don't have to hear, and we are listening.

We don't have to ask, and we can understand each other.

We don't have to express, and we know Love binds us together.

Mao Mao

My pet hamster passed away yesterday.
The worst part is, she waited for me to return from the
chalet before she passed away. She was waiting to see me one last time.

She made me think a lot. Lately...

Life is no one way street.
It is filled with a lot of turns and junctions.
The vehicles that travel on the roads are
the little parts and parcels of our life.

Mao Mao is one such "vehicle" that parks on my street.
And the rest?
The people who come and go are just those vehicles on my
roads.

They all have their destinations and places where they want to go.
Yet, only a few will stop on my roads and park it with me.

Lately, I started to examine my life. I started to think who
will stop by and examine my streets.

Then, I realized. I do no want anyone on my streets.
Why? I just don't like.

I feel messy lately.
Like the streets in my Life.
The traffic is messy. I got to admit, more people
have stepped into my life.

But, in the end. They are just passer-by.

I really wish the roads would be quieter.
I wish to be alone...

I need some time for myself and heal myself.
Like cleaning up the roads.

Heal myself
.
.
.

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Watched this reality show 抢摊大行动2.
It was not my favorite show but this episode is really interesting.

This episode showcased 2 different participants.
The first participant quit at the first day. The chef even went to his house and advise him.
In the end, the people whom he hurt most are his family members.

I am not criticizing this participant. I just want to bring out the second participant better.

The second participant is a different man. In some sense, he was like a last minute replacement.
However, the passion and sincerity that he had demonstrated was truly admiring.

I was so impressed by his sincerity.

In the end, he got the gold medal.

One judge, who is an author, commented this to him...
"天助自助者".
When I heard this phrase, I was amazed...
The phrase mean, Heaven will help those who help themselves.

When opportunity comes, we must grab hold of it and cherish it.
Most importantly, work hard for it...
2 different man... demonstrated the 2 sides of our world.

Mao Mao, Dar Dar and my pet. Ha...
She is our new source of joy...

BTW, we also got many other source of joy la...
Ha.

When can we watch movie again?

Finally, I can post my pictures again. Yeah!
This is just a start. I am sure I have missed out a lot of entries.

Firstly, my birthday. I spent a lot of great times with many friends. There are many names but you know who you are. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.

Names: JC, Nicholas, Sherlynn, Hui ling, Andrew, Adam, Toadie, Sz, Ching, Terence, Chong Ho, Steven, Kian Heng and Weitian, Tian Ju, Johnson, Wendy and many more.

I would like to thank Dar, for doing so much for me... constantly reminding me how fortunate I am to be loved by so many people... especially her.

Secondly, Project C.A.N. VI and Grant A Wish VII
The first one had just ended and the second project started immediately. I didn't get enough rest but I am still ready to give my every strength for all charity work. It is the smile of the kids that motivates me to carry on this commitment.

However, I swear... I will stop after this...

Thirdly, Dar and Me have marched into the third year of our relationship. Probably, it is going to be the start of something new!

I love you Dar. You and only you... =)

image from: http://growabrain.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/2008/01/10/a_new_direction.jpg

Next week, from 29 June to 4 July, I will be in school for camp.
Following that, I will be in reservist from 6 July to 17 July...

Guess I will be away for some time...

After the hectic life.. my new direction awaits...

Dar is upset with me. Because of my busy schedule. Despite my best effort to salvage the situation, things still cannot work out. I felt really disheartened after putting in so much effort in managing my life yet everyone else still cannot accept me...

Why am I doing this? It is hard to explain... But it has to be done...

I don't want to live with regrets.
I do things for a reason. That is my rational behavior. Why do I make my life so busy? I have a reason...

On top of everything, Dar is still the only girl in my heart...

I was surfing the web and saw this cute comic.
Interesting ehh..

Finally fulfilled my gf's wish to play at Sentosa. Well, it was a nice weather that day with some droplets of rain here and there. However, the most enjoying part was that there were not a lot of people at the beach. So it was fun because you can speak loud and play wild.

Enjoyed every moment. Looking forward for the next Sentosa visit.

Friends reading this entry, you should try relax yourself at the beach too.

Image source: http://theinspirationroom.com/daily/commercials/2009/4/funeral-snore.jpg



This is an excellent TV advertisement from Singapore that touched my heart today.
Two stream of tears flow from my eyes as I watched this 3mins advertisement.

The impact of this advertisement was so strong that it stired my emotion greatly.
I can't help but to remember my Mum when she was sick.
Everything that the actress said in this clip was what I experienced exactly at that time.
Though the situation is not the same, the feeling is...

"In the end, it is the small things you remember; a little imperfection that make them perfect for you."

That is Beautifully Imperfect...

Family... Love... is beyond imagination.
Nothing in this world weighs more important than Family...

In the eyes of my girlfriend, this carebear is me.
Don't understand what it means?

It is Good Luck Bear.

In the eyes of your loved ones, what type of carebear are you? =)

Image source: http://www.moviexclusive.com/review/departures/departures.html

Watched this great movie with my gf earlier. It is a heartwarming and meaningful show. A masterpiece which makes its audience understand life and death better.
The male lead finds a new dream in his work as a 'NK Agent'. Through him, we see different families and different approaches to death.

Through his job, he found his long lost father...

Through his cello, he found a shattered dream...

Through his wife, we see the meaning of true love...

Through this movie, we understand what is the ultimate goal that everyone is seeking...

Nothing but just peace in the end...

Having a relationship last for 20 months is not an easy task. In these 20 months, many quarrels and arguments took place. However, with every quarrel, we get to understand each other better. Walking with me for the past 20 months, requires great Love. Because Love itself is forgiving... No matter how many misunderstandings or arguments, Love is always the cure for these negative incidents.

I wanna say Thank You and I Love You...
Please carry on to stay by my side for another 100 sets of 20 months... if possible, Forever!

She is my mum.

A great and noble woman which no words can describe her love for her children

I love her :)

Took this picture on 9/Aug/2009 - Singapore National Day Parade
If you look carefully at the picture, you will see a heart shape
A reminder... Love everything around you.